Women these days make me upset. They act as if their life will be over if they do not have a man. This is an inaccurate statement. Yes, we all want to be in love, but at what cost? Humiliation and abuse? Manipulation and no provider? No education and no goals? Playboys and cheaters? Do you really LOVE yourself? Can’t. Can’t if you are following behind someone will shows blatant disregard for you and your feelings.
Friends of these women make it hard for men because yes it is the men who are causing their friend hurt and pain but you know what? HE’S DOING IT BECAUSE YOUR FRIEND, MY FRIEND, OR FRIENDS OF YOUR FRIENDS ALLLLLLOOOOOOWWWWWW it! Stand the hell up and realize that loneliness is only a state of mind. It’s possibly a short amount of time until you find the person you are meant to be with. Why blame the guy when the guy is doing it because of the weakness YOU have? Or the weakness YOUR friend has?
It’s like this: Whatever you allow ANYONE to do, not just a man, but anyone to do they will continue to do it. It’s great to say: treat others the way you want to be treated, but it’s easier said than done. SNAP THE HELL OUT OF IT pleassssseeeeeee! I can’t say this enough STAND on your own two feet and figure out what you want in LIFE, go for it and then settle down. If you already know those things baby girl something else is still missing because if you have everything figured out you wouldn’t allow anyone to run over you.
I am a woman therefore I do not bash my ladies, but I do want to be the voice of reason. I love you so please begin to LOVE YOU too.
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