Okay, People you are due for another Dating Chronicle with me. I have been dating someone for about a month and a half and it’s been fine. Fine as in DRY.
It started out really great. He had more sense then a lot of people. College degree, Masters in the future, own place, car, and a career, but these things were just precursors for me to move forward. He made me laugh, told me to pray when I was upset, and clearly loves his family. Those attributes make a sista jump for joy, but he’s boring. When we hang out we are not where we use to be so I have to apply my own advice. SPICE IT UP, right?
I tried and it hasn’t. He’s a great catch if we walked through the park, watched movies, or even cooked eachother dinner. All these things can be done inside of the home if money is tight and this isn’t not happening. Now I am pretty much a brat but this isn’t me being a brat. I feel that when two people are starting to develop something… you need to woo me because I’m not a materialist chick and that shhh you have means nothing if you’re boring. I have such a HUGE personality and if you’re not on the same ish as me… it won’t work.
So here’s my dilemma: When I try and back off he wants to act like he wants to do things different but he doesn’t. So I think I’m backing out and getting myself better for me and hopefully if it’s meant to be things will get better if not OH WELL. I can’t be bored to death I’m only 22. Sooo Mr. Got-it-together needs to get it allllll the way together.
“Love, Peace, and Poetry…1”